You’d be surprised how many people work second or even third job.

We had major pay cut so at least half of my colleagues work second job. It’s exhausting but it’s what it is. I am 51 and work 60 hours a week, I don’t think I am a loser. I have professional job
And graduate degree but have lots of debt. It’s no one business why I work second job. My husband can’t have second job whth his schedule but he works night shift overtime. Not much better. He has no debt but pays very hefty alimony to his ex who refuses to work. And he has a disability. But not ON disability. He works hard

But I’d rather work two jobs and be tired than sit on my butt relying on someone else pay my bills.