MyMarie, this is Ethelmom and I'm coming out of the "not posting" mode to take a stand against you being labeled. (explanation for name at bottom of page)

I've known you, like, for half my life and if there is anyone who isn't "infantile", it is you.

I could never, ever describe any of your behavior/actions as being childish. You are one of the most mature kids that I know. I'm sorry that you were labeled in such a manner. Don't carry that around with you for a minute. It is nothing.

You are one of the people who has always stepped up and and given sound and caring support to other members. You've been my rock for eons and you know how I appreciate that.

Your decisions are what will work for you best. You pay the cost, (emotionally and physically) to be the boss.

I love you, Ethelmom

p.s. Dangit, y'all, as close as we are, as mother/daughter, i've forgotten your nickname and i'm just gonna give you another one. you are now "MyMarie"(from a wonderful Randy Newman song, I just channeled him) .. and remember, anything that i name you can be overturned in a nanosecond!!