Just ruminating on some thoughts about this word "commitment" associated with the institution of marriage. I'm not bashing it, honestly.
I think the term marriage should be replaced with the word "lease" like you would get with a car. Set it for a certain amount of time & then come back & see if you wanto continue.

Is there anything else in our lives that we vow to keep forever? Even a 30 yr mortgage can be refinanced. Legally we are committed to raise our offspring to the age of 18 yrs old. But marriage we feel obligated to stay in till death.

I know there are couples out there that have found their life partners & will stay together till the end. They would renew that lease. And yes I understand that divorce is an option for almost half of married couples, but that word leaves a bitter taste in our mouths & leaves others with negative thoughts.
So why is this religiously based institution still around & still cherished by so many?
Just my thoughts.
Any comments?