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Originally Posted by Hinny
I want to like people....something about me isn't appealing to other people though, so now, I find it best to be alone. Ty, I'm sorry, I know you're wanting support, but this post made me feel better, so huge thanks. Good luck with everything n indeed, everyone ((Hugs))
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haha no worries. the best to you.
the funny thing is people often like me, I have a good veneer, but i can't properly have a relationship. so they like me from a distance.
it is disgusting of me but i have never been able to be with someone romantically (sexually?) without drinking or being incredibly stupid/yielding/full of lies. so now i don't know how to attach without attaching, if you know what i mean. I'm either closed off or reliant.
anyway, "odd duck" is to me more of a containing phrase than an insult. it's a dismissal. but i am weird, that's true, because it's fun.
let's get rid of those people from my mind and make sure i do my work. the only thing that matters is the result. as technology increases, including facial recognition, etc, I can't let myself be anomalous in public. at the end of the day, it's just an emotion i am feeling, no need to worry about it. i need to make the proper adjustments to appear as advanced as possible without actually changing. it's best to look boring on the outside. i'm a product, not a human.
this got away from me, lol.