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nicely said NW.... I think perhaps because the topic became about body image that it pushed everyone's buttons.

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I could not agree with you more - for no one (male or female) wants to be disliked due to their body........

and if the original poster had left us feeling like he was more concerned about his gf health than her appearance due to her weight then we could have been more supportive...... but he did not - he said: his gf was over weight at 5' 4" and 145 pound (and that is not over weight by a long shot) and that he was not attracted to chubby girls yet he is with his gf that is chubby (per his eyes).

Now - what really got me, made me feel that Champion was being more shallow than concerned was this statement he made.

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champion said:
I liked her a lot so I stuck with her.

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That sounds like a person that wants his gf to be something she is not and now he feels stuck in this chubby gf relationship........