I'm in the process of trying to communicate with Joe. He has a Facebook account, yet the last he posted a picture was in 2014. But of course since I'm not his Facebook friend, I'm unable to get inside his page. I'm of the mind that he's still upset over me leaving him those years ago,and thinking that way I got angry, yet after a girlfriend told me off last night ("you don't know what's going on with him, etc, etc") and knowing she's absolutely correct, I'm trying to be just a bit more calmer.
Yet I'm finding it interesting that I'm Facebook friends with at least two of his female relatives, and they don't know me from jack, and almost certain each of them saw my words about Joe used to be my boyfriend back in the day, yada yada.
Now in case some of you may wonder why I'm doing this, it's simply simple: I want to. Perhaps we can be friends if nothing else, though I will admit I wouldn't mind more.
But if it's a grudge he's holding onto (translation: pain) I understand. Men seem to hold onto stuff for a very LONG time!