I feel if you would ask anyone, in any culture, any place in the world, "how long should a marriage last?" I feel most would say, ideally forever so I feel it can be discussed.
I understand that parents play an early mindset role in young adults regarding values ethics etc, but I feel those characteristics are not ingrained, thank god.
What I'm still steering towards is just the lofty idea of making the idea of marriage....not so rigid, something with more choices.

Maybe I just need to think about it some more...crazy idea anyway.