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love_hate_sad said:
If you arn't willing to get better then why are you here?

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You must first understand that it takes time to get better and usually people are here as to talk thru their pains and anger so they can heal from deep inner wounds that still controls them from within. So what you see as them coming here looking for some one to do it all for them I see it as them venting & sharing as to heal.
........ as I often do - just look at my last post in Grief & Loss - I was not looking for some one to heal me, but rather I was looking for many to help me heal thru sharing my pain & guilt until I found some sense in the healing process.