My friend is a wonderful person but sometimes I can't stand the constant negativity. I try to be supporting but I get so angry because he throws it back in my face. He says I can't do anything so what's the point of going to me? I don't know what to say. I tell him maybe you need professional help or stronger medication. He says he feel more dead than alive. Whenever I talk postively, sometimes he talks back in a negative way. Complaining about life. Perhaps I'm being unfair but I just want the best for him. There's only so much I can do. I can offer him hugs and an ear but if he's going to be negative all the time and not help himself, what can I do? I feel so angry. Do I have to put up with it or just separate myself? I can't let this get me down too.
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