Greetings, it is with a heavy heart that I lay these lines of text about my friend and love. She had a breakdown and I need help in helping her(I might need help as well when this ends).
She grew up in an abusive family, lived on her own since 16 with her brother while still having contact with her family. Her brother has some anger issues that are more like an angry kid than an actual threat to her. She did not have friends for a long time, and in the last 2 years, she got me and two other girls, so we 4 became best friends. Since she was solo for a long time she relied on herself and got really well, works at home, has a great school, university record, all the other 3 of us were depressed and lonely before and she got all of us together. We all got along great, went on many trips, talk every day, almost every waking hour. She is very perfectionist, and if something goes wrong she thinks it's her fault all the time. Yesterday we went out, spent the whole day just me and her, had drinks, laugh, walks, the good stuff. By evening all of us talked on webcam and suddenly she started telling she is not worthy, she is a disappointment, she should not be our friend, that she gives up on this life. She didn't want to answer our questions and left, unfriended all of us 3 off social media. She told she will give up university and all her passions. She is very religious and she kept telling us its because she sinned and did something bad. She didn't want to tell us what happened just that she breaks our friendship, we tried and tried but to no avail. We called her back on webcam but managed nothing, she is very strong-willed and aggressive when she has to. Can anyone give me some advice on helping her out ? My heart is broken and couldn't sleep