i am facing that choice.. not immediately but in the reasonably near future. Do i want to do my master's degree? If yes, i have to move. i don't want to move, not just because of T, but i guess he is the "icing" on the cake. i'm considering some short term out of town residencies and stuff and he is a factor for me. i don't mind say 6 weeks away, but that would probably be the max i could even consider. Then i think about that and i do not like having my decisions revolve around anyone but me. Hmmm.