Borderline and Bipolar get confused during diagnosis and some people have both.

I was also told by a Dr. that "labels" are really only there to help with billiing for insurance companies..and that many people have various traits that could fall under many different mental illness categories.

You sound like me...when you say you are very dangerous when it comes to friendships...there seems to be an underlying immaturity issue that you have...as I do.

I was told I act and react to situations as if I'm 16....and I DO agree with that....Its very hard to change these things..but not impossible...again acknowledging our character defects and WORKING on them vs. making excuses for them.

Its like we need to be scolded like children to realize it is NOT OK to act the way we act sometimes and we must change it if we want to be happy.