sunny, I'm so sorry if I offended you. I didn't mean to at all. I had to go back and see what made me say that and it's:

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At our last session we briefly touched on payment for his services, in a general way, like his billing practices. He said something like, "and sometimes I spend all this time on phone calls and meetings for my clients when I am not with them, and all this time goes by and I realize I'm not being paid for this. So why am I doing it?" .... So I feel especially sensitive that I don't want him spending his unpaid minutes on composing a substantive email back to me.

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I understood that to mean that he doesn't know your feelings. That maybe sharing that would clarify and specify for you what he feels comfortable with so that you can feel comfortable too.