I did read all the responses. Idk why I put that there. But why don't you guys advocate for something like this. Like show it and agure for psychological abuse to be more widely recognized. I think it's commonly missed because a lot of people don't report of think that's it's worth the time to report or something like that.

I myself would not have regonsied it as verbal abuse since I think that it's my fault since I had such a bad attitude. My dad always yelled at us and especially me to stop crying or showing an emotion. I'm a very oversensitive person and I learned not to show my emotions.I see my dad doing it to my little brother and I don't want my brother to grow up like that, but he doesn't do it as bad since they love my siblings more than me. But he doesn't do it as much but if he does I'm the one who goes and helps my brother, who blames me for everything. I have always tried to show kindness in the face of rudeness, even though I should've shut them out. I forgave them yet they continue to do the same thing. I know they care but isn't that more of a reason that they can get to me. I know that it's a cycle that I'm most likely to be caught in since I'm so forgiving. And I can see why you'd like for the abuser to pay for a lot of the stuff. I fail at recognizing it as abuse and most likely will never report it. My pdoc said that rather than psychosis that I might have a personality disorder, which really upset me since it think she filed at regconizing the psychosis at the time it wasn't as bad as it is now. But if I tell her that I have had this happen to me than she'll lean to a pd. I don't want my mom or family to be blamed for anything or pay. I absolutely hate it when people have to pay for something for me. I think maybe that's why I oppose it so much. I'm so sorry that I've gone off topic and said that. I'm not looking for pity and I don't want to be seen as a victim by saying this stuff.

I'm sorry you suffered abuse so bad that it limits the life you live and I don't think you deserved it. I can see why you'd want them to pay.