Yes, we did analyze the leaving therapist (mother(s)) for husband. It gets very complicated :-) During the break with her I dreamed about her approximately every 6 months for the first 3-4 years and until the second to last dream (7 or 8?) it was always horrible and I'd wake crying because I'd dream I was supposed to have a session with her but we had to cancel. Once it was because of a snow storm and we got a moment together outside by a car (getting something from out of a trunk) and another time she was disappointed in me because I had "failed" and was going to have to see her again (in the future). Really sad dreams.

But the second to last dream I was talking to her on the telephone and told her I loved her. It was a wonderful dream/feeling. . . until I woke up (long before I knew I would meet her again). Since I'd moved/lost touch with her and she lived in Virginia and I had moved up and was working in Baltimore I never suspected we'd ever meet again. Getting to see her again (not easy) was one of THE big things in my life.