It is not our fault that we have mental illnesses and have had our struggles in the past. These are very valid things that should be dealt with and worked through.

However, it -is- our responsibility to work on getting help for these issues. It -is- our responsibility to not let our past define us as we are now. It -is- our choice whether or not to stay stuck. You struggle with depression and anger, both very valid things, but that means the onus lies on you to get the help for it, and to work damn hard. Harder than those without these struggles.