I am gonna be brave here

he specificly said he was losing his libido and starting to look at other women

this has nothing to do with inner beauty in my opinion

I will also be honest and say that I like hot women also

as do most honest men

but to try to make someone a project is not good in my opinion .... unless they are receptive

I feel that I have given him the benifit of the doubt and the best advice he will ever get from a man ..on how to make her receptive to him

lets not minimize the real issue here

he wants good advice, he has got it

if he wants to respond when he comes back I will be here

not much he could ask/say to me in this department that I wont feel comfortable with