I don't know why people expect that. My family expects me to be that happy overjoyed optimistic girl I was. Every professional out sided of the clinic where I was outpatient minimized the buling. Saying I was depressed before hat. Truth is the abuse use fuse and bulling started getting worse orse forse that year. I expressed to my mom that I was getting bullied but she completely ignored it. So that led my to feel that I was the one causing it and it was all my fault. So I think personally it's the feeling that you can't trust anyone to help you. So people only see them as weak and expect to get over it and be happy and feel worthy. Since they think bulling is nothing