Are we talking about SecondLife or a game like that? How old are you? No one does too well in relationships without "practice" in real relationships. One has to try them just like one does in a game and risk hurt and being hurt to get close and learn to give and take, to communicate, and really "live". You can't "expect" what is going to happen, life just is and relationships form and break up and people hurt you and you them. Real time isn't predictable like a book or game.

You are also your gaming self; I would remember how well you do gaming and just have faith you can do that well and rise to the occasion in real life?