champ.. I also know a lot about working out, as does my wife so may can help there , as well, mabey she don't want to go to a gym and would be more comfortable working out at home like my wife ... I can ask here her routine, tapes etc she uses ..but your girl has to be the one that wants to stay fit, change diet, whatever (not just for you)...the way you described her ...it don't sound like she cares much what you think ...mabey she is not that attracted to you either LOL

just kidding champ ...