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Originally Posted by Fluffyraincloud
Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice! Itīs true my first post didnīt provide much of a context at all, i think deep down i wanted someone to reply that i was a horrible person for cheating. I keep seeking validation for the bad things i think about myself, gotta stop doing that.
And i agree your situation seems a lot different. He and i are not exactly equals. Maybe itīs time to move on and forget the past. Iīll always care about him but itīd be nice to turn a new leaf, or whatever that saying goes.
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Its ok to remain friends..just hurry up and break up before you get to a point where you will dislike each other so much that you can't even be friends.
Your right..you need to start thinking what is GOOD about yourself...because if you don't value yourself...you are going to continue to attract people that also don't value you....that's a fact.
The next person in your life does not need you pointing out your own flaws...you are a "catch"...smart, funny and willing to learn more about yourself before commiting to a long term relationship.
Find ways to build your self esteem...karate? aerobics? yoga? Do something that you enjoy because when you venture out and make yourself part of life...your not so self absorbed or even worse...basing all your worth off of what some GUY thinks of you.
I just want to give you these "lessons" that I wish I had learned when I was younger...You put this b/f aside..and focus on you and what you want to do with your life...
And put all your energy into you and when you are stronger...you will see you will attract much more appealing/healthy men.
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