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Originally Posted by Frankbtl
Hi Fluffy
It's fine, you didn't at all come off like this:
"I probably came off a bit elitist like "iīm too classy to party" which is not what i meant.................."
And yes, not sure they sound like actual, true friends..........but I don't know whether it might be an option (depending on the type of people they are!!) to instead see them more as "people you know" meaning you could perhaps just do occassional things with them, just so you have the occassional social links which come from that.........and maybe the occassional "good time" with them??
And absolutely, looking to make better friends sounds like a real good plan, of course that might take some time and one step at a time..........but remember you're worth it
Alison |
Thank you! I do view them as like just chill people i hang out with sometimes. We used to be very close, but drifted apart when everyone went to different high schools. I know i should challenge myself to ask my new school acquaintances to hang out sometime, just gotta gather the courage. Theyīre all super shy like me so no one takes much initiative.