It's good that you recognise what is driving you to use these psychics.

I suppose everyone is entitled to their beliefs but those people make money out of other people's sadness IMO.

I don't mean to cause offence (I hope I don't) but I will give you external validation for free. From what you write he will repeat the same unfortunate behaviours over and over (the ones which caused hm to be in his situation).

What will your future be? I think it can be a happier one without someone like him around. I hope you will also learn how to trust you 'inner voice' too. You are a smart woman, you've just got to believe yourself when you get those alarm bells (it doesn't make you uncaring or unkind).