Possible live it out find out how she got to be....Is it a depiction of past relationship situation, just like home. Is out for some sort of emotion in its feelings basically share what is new....I want to be just blah blah in this moment save the emotions for something else where it is acceptable at. Find a way to deflect in a direction interact with is alter ego ideally I'd like for you to be this, believe that for it until you get to know other alters.