Hi ECHOES, sorry, looks like I overreacted. When I wrote I was sensitive to his spending extra time, I didn't mean that I had hurt feelings or anything, but just that I was respectful of his policy (boundaries). I feel his policy is reasonable.

I am feeling a little sensitive right now because I sent T this long email, with some hard stuff in it, and he didn't respond at all. Oh, well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

It is really striking to me how many people here on PC had bad first sessions back after the break. It's like a plague upon us.