Hello misty78, I see this is your first post so welcome to PC!

I hope you find your time here to be of benefit. Once you have 5 approved posts, you will be able to enter the chat room and talk to fellow members. There is almost always someone online to chat with.
If your partner is just concerned about your health, he is definitely going about it the wrong way. Ultimately it has to be YOU who decides to lose the weight, and it has to be for YOU, not HIM.