your waiting....that's okay. People seem to believe that once your in your mid 20's it's time to settle down, marry, and reproduce. There's no need to rush into anything and be committed to nobody but yourself. If you plan on doing this sometime in the future anyway then don't worry about it. You probably know what you want in a partner and won't buckle down for anything less. I mean as long as your wants are reasonable, there's nothing wrong with that.

Don't let outside pressures rush you into anything. I wouldn't blame yourself neither, just be patient.