If a person expects life to become easy parcheesy after working their *** off to achieve this they will be sadly disappointed. Have you considered that maybe people get better, then fall back, better, then fall back again...because life is hard and is full of sucky hardships and sufferings. It's reality.

Life can be joyous..I agree with this. In order for a person to achieve real happiness in their lives I believe they have to fully accept their sufferings, their pain, and all the junk surrounding it. Accepting pain and taking it head on and making the best of it. There is no such thing as a painless life.