Welcome to PC!

Sounds like you are ready to figure out why long term relationships haven't been in the cards for you. Maybe sitting down and writing out "why" you broke off the relationships will help you to find some kind of a pattern to your behavior? It may even give you a good idea of what you are looking for in a relationship and just have not been finding it? It can also give you a sense of what kind of person you have been seeking out....are they ones who have something in their personalities that you find distasteful so you have no issues with breaking off the relationship? Maybe you are feeling a fear of commitment in some way that stops you from continuing with someone.

There could be many reasons as to why it hasn't worked out for you yet. I think that writing down each situation and taking stock in each one will help you figure out what's going on and where you need to put your energies (if any) in changing your perspective on relationships in general.

I am wishing you well. Keep posting....in doing so, you may find some growth and understanding of yourself and the process!

Take good care!


sabby