I hear ya. I normally have no clue how to say what I am feeling, it takes me a while to get started and after that I just let it out and hope it makes sense! I also don't have to worry about being judged here cuz I know we are all in the same boat, have somewhat the same issues and we know there is someone here that has gone through the same thing, and just looking for a shoulder or some words of wisdom, am I making sense??? Anyway, we are all here to listen and comfort or vent no matter how it comes out.-Jen