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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue
Yep, we're all different and I can only speak for myself. Horrible is off-putting to me. So is lying. So is being manipulative.
(No reflection on you, Mulan).
The ability to lie well seems an odd ambition.
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I am not saying lying in order to get anybody hurt. But I see many people doing those kind of things and some of them are indeed very compassionated ones.
I tend to want to say thruthfull things in social settings and it mostly gets me in trouble. Like saying I don't know something when I am being evaluated... Rhetoric, make things turn to your side and look good in the picture, is what I am trying to say. When you get oversteped and overlooked for not knowing how to do that...
Even a good psychiatrist has to know how to manipulate their patients. Isn't therapy some sort of manipulation also?
They lead you to where they want you to get.