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Old Nov 08, 2017, 09:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Fernwehxx View Post
That's nice. I may tell her.
I'm scared she may distance herself after, or obviously reject me, which I know I couldnt deal with well.
In a way, I really want her to know how much she does for me. Shes more personal and approachable than any T I have had before. And, she really gets me. I live it when she laughs, and I love it how she tells me exactly the things I have always wanted to hear.
I am truly thankful that I found her, and I coyldnt do therapy with aomeonw I sont feel a strong connection for. Been there, done that, and all I do is chat, pretend, but I can't let go and go deep enough to really open up. With her, I can. I look forward to our appointments all the time, as is I were meeting a friend for some coffee....
If you do tell...maybe first ask if anything you say would change things. I did. I told him he was terrified he would stop hugging me and cut off contact. He replied in a email very sweetly about why he hugs me and how what I tell him wont change. I was still nervous but it made it easier.