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I don't know. I still love him but I am very sad too, as I feel him slipping away from me. I wonder if this is the beginning of termination? You just start losing the closeness and finally when there is nothing left, there is no point to go to therapy anymore, so you stop. Is that how it is? It's painful.

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I feel as though it is just the opposite. That if termination is going to occur, the closeness has gotten so intense and beneficial that you are able to transfer that love and use it on yourself and others outside of the relationship. I don't think you would feel as though there is nothing left. I think you would feel as though everything is beginning.