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Originally Posted by Demunie
 sorry about your friends. It's hard to drift apart... Would you like to spend more time with them?
I don't think asking for extra support is ridiculous, dramatic or "wrong". I think you should do what feels right for you - and if you want the extra support (and T has an appointment to offer) then get it. |
I know when I get very depressed I tend to isolate myself. It was a series of events that lead me promising myself that I wouldn't need ever need anyone like that again. I stopped trying to be there for everyone and focused on myself. I started turning down invitations to events if I didn't feel like it. I felt like they knew where I was-if they wanted to talk they could. I just wasn't going to be the one always chasing after them. I'm not a saint but her telling me that she still loved me and cared just hurt. I don't know how to fix us. I know half the time I'm very irrational and it's me- I'm what's wrong.