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Seriously, anytime you're officially prohibited from ever talking to someone again, there's a problem.
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YOUR BEHAVIOR.
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And if someone doesn't ever wanna see you again and won't acknowledge you, there's a problem.
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YPUR BEHAVIOR
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If someone doesn't miss you or care, there's a problem
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YOUR BEHAVIOR
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If someone goes out of her way to avoid you, it's WTF. Why?
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YOUR BEHAVIOR
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Anytime someone changes like that, I die inside.
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Maybe you should work on CHANGING YOUR BEHAVIOR that has caused them to react to you in such a negative way. Everyone has to deal with negative CONSEQUENCES when they continue to behave in a bad way they have been warned about stopping but chose to ignore because they dont want to listen or change.
You commented in your other post that your OWN parents tried to teach you right from wrong & YOU CHOSE NOT to listen to them. Other people will only TOLERATE that crappy behavior for so long until they have ENOUGH & walk away because you won't STOP OR LISTEN. Your parents did you NO FAVIOR allowing you to get away with that intolerable behavior because you learned it was ok to them.....IT'S NOT OK TO THE REST OF TJE WORLD. You are living in the rest of the world NOW & whether you have ASD, it is NO EXCUSE for not doing what you are told no matter when you are told it....it is NOT OK & what you are experiencing is ALL THE CONSEQUENCES that came from your UNACCEPTABLE behavior when you chose to ignore your supervisor at work the same way you ignored yiur parents only work & friends arent yoyr family & they have no reason to tolerate YOYR BEHAVIOR when it is annoying & especially when it crosses boundaries.
You seem to be clueless no matter how many times you ate told. Honestly that is exactly why I left my husband also. That behavior most people dont want to tolerate & it is easier to leave the person than to deal with constantly fighting against their bad behavior.
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I make friends easily but I never kept friends more than a few years. That applies to colleagues too. They ALL eventually walk out on me.
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If you dont learn how to change YOUR BEHAVIOR, this will continue happening because you are the one who needs to change if you want people to stay in your life without getting fed up & walking away & if necessary take action to keep you away from them.