It's what I feel like right now. I work at an inpatient facility for adolescents with different psychiatric diagnoses. They range from depression to borderline to bipolar. One of our biggest rules is to not disclose much about yourself to patients. Obviously it's very difficult to maintain relationships for the months these kids are with us without disclose some. We are a residential facility so rapport goes a long way. So many times I've wanted to just be like hey I get it, I have the same problems or similar problems or gone through similar trauma. Many times I give them above that I don't take myself. It seems like most staff there have had some issues they have dealt with or are currently dealing with but even staff don't share information much. It seems completely ridiculous at time talking about a patients care while not managing your own. How completely, utterly stupid.