Everything you stated sounds so much like my past relationship. I'm just coming to accept years later I was emotionally abused and taken advantage of. I totally get what you're going through. Sometimes it helps to try and look at the positive which is that you will for sure know to not put up with that kind of disrespect in future relationships. You should be happy and proud of yourself that you put your foot down and are no longer willing to indulge his awful behavior. Know that you weren't at fault ever in this relationship and that one day karma will hit him hard. Guys like that never end up in a good, happy and healthy relationship. -Hugs- hope that everything goes well for you