I'm glad that you are reclaiming your bank account. Did you just write that you were only recently 'allowed' to pay the bills as the only income maker?
That flags to me as him monitoring your spending from leaving.
Otherwise, you've been given a wealth of advice and input. It's good to reach out, utilize therapy-individual and marital and perhaps a chat with someone who specializes in domestic violence, and connecting with others that have had gone through it and survived to tell their stories.
There's much to unravel from.