In my mom's case, the hospice care had group grief counseling. It didnt help me because I was so angry at my mom for making bad choices that caused the trauma at the end of her life for me & her though she was unaware of what was really going on when the police were involved at both her house & in the hospital.....but my situation was way more complex than any of their counselors could handle. Have never grieved my mom's death & don't feel the need.....it was just a relief & I do thank her for unknowingly leaving me with a way of learning my bad marriage that she had encouraged me to stay in way too long. It's like that book of my life ended & a new book started.....not just a chapter.
Grieving is so different for each person. I talked a lot about the end of my mom's life with my psychologist. It was very helpful to validate why I was feeling & experiencing her death the way I did. T's are usually very helpful with things like this.....would encourage you to talk about it....it opens up hurt but you can't heal without doing that
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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