Dear Info,

Tomorrow we’re talking more about No. 3. It would be a waste of time to spend more than a few minutes on the divorce hearing; it has to happen, and we can deal with the fallout later.

But 3...I am really sick of thinking about her, of having every emotion from pain to anger about her, of wondering when you’re going to make severe boneheaded mistakes like her and not resolve them. I trust by now from things you’ve said and done that you won’t be like 1, or 2, or CW, or even Smaug. Possibly not even DBC. But you could always be like 3, a good therapist who made bad mistakes. And that’s a fear much less easy to assuage.

ATAT