I think "what's best for you & you alone" is even more vital in marriage. It's a Petri dish area where one can get lost in a union. Our "self" can disappear.
How is he "looking after your health" yet demoralizing your mental health. Is one better than the other?
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"Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain."
Jodi Picoult
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