You are not selfish.

You are human. Not only that - you are kind and caring. So much so you are putting others before yourself. That's an endearing quality very few people (and not even one selfish person) have these days. The fact you can't do it sober does not make you selfish. It means you are taking on more than you should - yet you are doing so willingly. That's both admirable and foolish. Admirable on how deeply you care for others. Foolish that you don't care for yourself as much as you do others.

Be good to yourself.

❤