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Originally Posted by twinkles7
Wow this is the perfect forum for me today. I'm sorry to hear it and staying away is probably the best thing.
I just had my year anniversary this past weekend and my husband moved out today. I'm sick of him having excuses not to help me pay bills and contribute the household financially. He also had started accusing me of cheating and saying really mean hurtful things to me.
He told me that I "thought I was cute but I'm not I'm an old *****." That was it for me. I can't do it anymore. This isn't my first rodeo and the writings on the wall so why go on any further. Still sad anyway.  |
I am glad you are here, too, and welcome to PC!
Oh goodness.... sounds like you landed yourself in a dysfunctional and abusive relationship as well. My ex was not financially responsible either!!! I supported us for four months straight, while he sat around playing video games and smoking weed rather than looking for work like he was supposed to!!! I kicked him out after dipping into my savings too many times.
If they cannot contribute financially, and if there's also disrespect, it's time for them to go. So good for you for ending it and for saying enough is enough!!!
My ex calling me a slut and trashy finally was my last straw. That allowed me to see the verbal abuse as clear as the day. It cannot get any more obvious than that. Just like given what yours said to you.
Sending you a big hug!!!!! Best to get out now before things got worse.