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Originally Posted by golden_eve
YES. Financially irresponsible people are definitely to be avoided at all costs. Little did I really know, until I lived with him..... but it took a couple more months for me to finally sever the chord and get out. Even after all the crap he pulled on me.
I am very happy I avoided the commitment too. He would have ruined me, in every way, and I bet I would have been driven to SI and acting on it, I am sure.
I am so glad you are out of yours too, but it makes me sad that you were driven to that level AND that he is still ruining your life.  |
I’d say he is more than financially irresponsible. He has no income or finances to be responsible about. Haha
I am actually not very financially responsible person. Neither is my husband. I am worse though. But I guess there are different levels of irresponsibility. I always supported myself and it’s been on my own since high school. So was my husband. So I guess we responsible in that sense. But certainly not in other aspects
It depends on what your deal breakers are. I wouldn’t date people who
Don’t work full time. But it’s ok if they don’t save money for example or have debt