I know it’s neither here nor there but you don’t have to inherit financial debt of your spouse unless you want to (some people don’t mind helping their spouse to pay debt). But if you don’t combine credit card and bank accounts, you are responsible for your own debt accumulated prior to marriage or a new debt

On the other topic if you married a guy and stayed long enough and he didn’t work and then divorced you, you’d pay him alimony. My husband pays alimony because his ex refused to get full time job for the whole duration of their marriage

You dodged a bullet