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Old Nov 12, 2017, 10:54 AM
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I’m sorry you feel like this & want to say that you ARE worth more than you think & feel. I’ve not ever seen my t out in the ‘real world’ but I understood that it’s up to the client as to whether or not they want acknowledgement. He should have waited to see how you wanted to deal with it, be it just a smile or a verbal hello. I would feel very hurt if my t saw me & just ignored me. Tell him how hurt you were by his behaviour towards you & how he made you feel. I would also pick him up when he avoids things too & ask him as to why he’s avoiding. I think that if you feel you want/need touch from him, I would ask him. Many t’s dont do touch, but I’d ask anyway. I think all of what you are asking is really just ‘grist for the mill’ stuff which your t should encourage you to discuss. If he’s still not prepared to talk about the stuff that’s important to you, then I’d find a different t.
Thanks for this!
RaineD