A quote from Ruby's other thread....depending where on the spectrum....it is not always easy to understand the neurotypical world we ALL live in. That is why is is SO IMPORTANT to listen & learn as much as possible from your T & case worker. They are there to help you can learn to change those behaviors that come from your ASD thinking that aren't acceptable in the neurotypical world. They are there to teach you, not just there for no reason.

I know that these changes in thinking are much more difficult than for neurotypical people & there are limitations that your T & case worker need to help you deal with. Right now you are basically just trying to figure out how to fit into the world around you & you need to learn from your mistakes. It's obvious from this post that you are still incapable of correlating the consequences of your behavior with the behavior you did to cause this situation you are complaining about in this post.

After living with an ASD husband for 33 years, I get this is difficult for the ASD mind to correlate.....but it is one of the key issues of getting along in a neurotypical world & ever hoping to have friends that stay around longer than a few years until they can no longer tolerate the behaviors.

It's NOT EASY & there is no ABSOLUTE solution but it is something you now know to be a problem you have & need to work on to the best of your ability & stop blaming others for the situations you find yourself in. Acknowledge your responsibility in these situations & work to improve yourself, not blame others.