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Originally Posted by sapphire-v
As a co-owner with a duplex, and many years and people later I’ve got to say each person has strengths and weaknesses, including myself. When some neighbours are plain crazy just remember that often a gesture of kindness goes a long way plus it feels good!
Often a direct conversation will open dialogue towards a compromise or solution. You see... often what’s making you angry, others aren’t even aware of.
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This is so true. Even our substance abuse neighbour had no idea we were disturbed by the 2am blasts of music. I had to have the 'polite words' conversation many times, boy did it wear the patience but reasonable is the best approach.