I'm not usually one for "woo," but that sounds like a beautiful realization, Art. I'm also so intrigued by how many ways there are to come to good, strong insights.

That sounds like it was a very freeing and empowering experience, Art. Much too woo for me, but the answers you received resonate with me. Sometimes the only wrong decision is indecision. You seem like you've made the decision that is best for you now, and that may change over time. That doesn't mean that your decision now was "wrong," just that your needs have changed.