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Originally Posted by eskielover
Tisha.....had to chuckle at your typo.
It's so easy to rationalize away red flags we do see. After my experience If I see any red flags I'm outta there.....but also not looking. Maybe that may be part of why I didn't push the divorce through because I was screwed by my name not being able to be removed from the home loan in the first place divorced or not. I know legally I am not responsible for any other debt incurred because my name isn't involved in anything else. I closed all accounts that were joint after cleaning up the mess with the IRS (7 years dealing with that after I left). Not being divorced (legally still married) keeps me totally out of any available scene (my protection).
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It’s not a typo. My friend is so funny. Most of these guys were pot heads. It was a play on words.
I married a man that seemed so perfect for me. He has a great job, never did drugs, nice family, so stable. But, he was the worst for me. I’m miserable and now everybody knows it. But, I can’t bring myself to force the divorce because of my low self esteem and guilty feelings.
Nobody is perfect. Everybody shows plenty of red flags. You just have to decide which person will work for you as a partner.
This last psychiatrist told me that I wouldn’t have been happy with anybody. Pretty damning words, huh? And I PAID this B to destroy me like that.